You see many of us can’t stand to be alone. We need to be surrounded by other people; we Need to be in a relationship with someone. We need constant attention and interaction with other humans. We have become so conditioned to receive our happiness from other people. Some people won’t let one relationship truly end until they are sure they have another one starting.
But you know what;
You Need to spend some time alone. You need time to decide who you are and what you want to become. Ironically spending time alone will allow you to make decisions on who you want in your life which will ultimately improve the quality of your life. Spending time alone allows you to clear your head and gain perception. You can make smart decisions without the distractions of everything else going on.
You can increase your productivity by being alone. We all set ourselves personal goals but how are we supposed to accomplish them if we allow friends, family, work etc to distract us from these ambitions. Time alone presents a valuable opportunity for you to make progress on those goals and start turning dreams into reality.
So if you are coming out of a relationship I challenge you to take 6 months. Take 6 months to work on you and improving your life. Don’t be stressed or anxious about being alone for a little while; this time now will bear fruit for the rest of your life. Whilst you are working on improving you the right people will appear in your life. Even if you are in a relationship have a think; do you spend time on a daily or weekly basis being alone with your own thoughts? Even 20 mins a week to go a walk without any distractions can greatly improve your choices and the environment you've put around you.
At the end of the day if you can’t stand being in your own company why would others want to be in your company?